Stories That Bind: How Shared Stories Can Become the Glue That Holds Relationships Together

Have you ever noticed how the right question can open a door to deeper connection, understanding, and even transformation? In this conversation, Mandy Pallock and Dr. Jonathan Rogers discuss fostering curiosity about God and the people around us. Joining the conversation is Dr. Jonathan Rogers, acclaimed author of The Wilderking Trilogy and host of The Habit Podcast. Together, they explore the art of asking meaningful questions, the power of active listening, and how storytelling shapes the way we engage with the world. Dr. Rogers shares his insights on making others feel seen, the significance of naming and identity, and how literature is an ongoing conversation that connects generations.

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I don’t remember one thing about the day I was born, though I have been given to believe that it happened in Warner Robins, Georgia, which serves as the setting for most of my childhood memories. I received an undergraduate degree from Furman University and hold a PhD in seventeenth-century literature from Vanderbilt University. I have spent most of my adult life in Nashville, Tennessee, where I live with my wife, our six kids, and a Labrador retriever.

I call my fiction “fantasy adventure stories told in an American accent.” The Wilderking Trilogy (The Bark of the Bog Owl, The Secret of the Swamp King, and The Way of the Wilderking) and The Charlatan’s Boy are fantasy stories, but they owe more to Twain than to Tolkien. Peopled by boasters, brawlers, bumpkins, con men, cowboys, and swampers, my novels draw deeply from American vernacular storytelling traditions. They harness the humor of that tradition in the service of divine comedy—a worldview in which the sorrows and hurts of this world, as true as they might be, aren’t nearly so true as a vital joy and love that will one day sweep everything before them like a flood.

I love the comic novel in particular because I believe that even low comedy can be a way to get at transcendence. But my non-fiction books—The World According to Narnia, Saint Patrick, and The Terrible Speed of Mercy: A Spiritual Biography of Flannery O’Connor—center on divine comedy too.

In recent years, I have gone back to teaching creative writing at New College Franklin as well as online and in live-action seminars.

I also host the Habit Membership — community for writers — at thehabit.co.